Nobody's ready for marriage--marriage makes you ready for marriage -- Differentiation : developing a self-in-relation -- Your sexual potential : electric sex! -- Intimacy is not for the faint of heart -- Sexual desire : who wants to want -- Hugging till relaxed -- Love and foreplay aren't blind, unless you insist on it -- Eyes-open orgasm : making contact during sex -- Where's your head during sex? : mental dimensions of sexual experience -- Fucking, doing, and being done : it isn't what you do, it's the way you do it -- Two-choice dilemmas and normal marital sadism -- Hold onto yourself : your crucible survival guide -- Couples in the crucible : reaching critical mass -- Sex, love, and death.
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