There is always a low desire partner and the low desire partner controls sex -- Since your "self" showed up, sexual desire hasn't been the same -- The low desire partner usually controls the high desire partner's adequacy -- Holding on to your self -- Intimacy shapes your sexual desire -- Changing monogamy from martyrdom to freedom -- Desire fades when you stop growing -- Wanting, not wanting to want, and two-choice dilemmas -- Normal marital sadism, the devil's pact, and other dark stuff -- What does it really take to change things? : safety, growth, and critical mass -- A collaborative alliance is more important than perfect technique -- Curing ticklishness and noxious touch -- Tender loving sex -- Blow your mind!
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